YES I SAID IT...falling in LOVE is the EASY PART...
I know that some of you are thinking ...there are a completely different set of rules that apply when falling in Love as a BBW or someone falling in Love with a BBW! and I am not going to sit right here in your face and lie and say that there isn't. THERE ARE VERY DIFFERENT RULES, STIPULATIONS, AND WAYS TO GO ABOUT ACCOMPLISHING THE ART OF FALLING IN LOVE AS A BBW AND WITH A BBW! BUT GUESS WHAT ...that is still the easy part...wait there's more...
I am just going to highlight a few of these based on personal experience and that of my
LL (larger lady) PARTNERS and their LOVERS!
rule 1. PERSONAL PREFERENCES
Now I'm not at all saying that a man is not entitled to like what he likes even if that is a so called perfect size 9-10 slim and trim, but we aren't talking about those women or the men who love them here.. that is another blog that I am not the author of...#justsaying
Straight up... a man has to have a predisposed infatuation with nooks, crannies, jiggles, boom booms and rolly jellies...#ijs. It just isn't going to work if he is not genuinely attracted to the Bigguns.."THE BIGGER the BETTER" has to be one of his personal mantras. Because lets face it POWERFUL PERSONALITIES are the ultimate plus but at night in the dark in the privacy of the dungeon, hes has to want to MAKE LOVE TO YOUR PHYSIQUE TOO. FAKING IT WILL ONLY GET YOU SO FAR ...So I am saying personally that if my stomach isn't a vessel for fun to ignite his gun, then we have missed the mark because I don't' always want to be in the dark! TURN THE LIGHTS ON I WANNA WATCH!
In the same sense...LADIES letting yourself go to the wayside and sacrificing your HEALTH is not cute either!
This is a A WAYSIDEWINDFALL BBW:
This is a WinningWhoa BBW: (aka yours truly)
That being stated I cannot at all judge the next woman on her personal appearance and how she perceives her sexiness, but I don't want to hear you crying about MEN NOT BEING ATTRACTED TO YOU while we are at Dunkin Donuts Dunking maple iced Donuts in Triple Lattes with extra whipped cream twice a week. Dayum Girl! ITS REALLY ABOUT PERSONAL PREFERENCE FOR US AS WELL AS THE MEN!
LADIES ASK YOURSELF?
How do I prefer my Body to Be? How confident am I? What do I really want in Love and LUST?
rule 2. PREPARATION for the LONGEVITY TEST
Just like any other test in life we have to be prepared for the questions. and as we all know love is the biggest question of them all . Am I ready? Does he really Love me? Do I really Love him? Why do I love him? What are we going to gain from this Love thing?
Do not fool yourself into thinking that this is not a test of the EMERGENCY UNIVERSAL BROADCAST SYSTEM! Clearly if YOUR HEART IS IN IT you are GOING TO WIN IT! @Ipassedthelovetest
Guys seem to fool themselves into thinking that its not that serious when it really is to them also. BE ADVISED LADIES...HE IS SURELY TESTING YOU and if you are not prepared it will be an Once you both realize that you are taking the same notes on each other and that the final exam is coming up soon, Its really time to take special care to remember and recognize the details because those are the ones that will pass the test of time! Isn't that what falling in love the easy way is about? Longevity?
besides: If you are too lazy to find out exactly what makes a BEAUTIFUL BOUNTIFUL BBW tick beside her wonderful juiciness and she not concerned with anything besides your thickness then both of you might as well fail for CHEATING ON THE TEST!
since we don't do that here on this blog...we only go for the gusto! the true LOVEABBW.COM WAY! prepare for your test today!
rule 3. GREEN DREAMS and THE FUNCTION
Lets be for real, and I have touched on this subject many times before. If your Green is not Serene , You both will get Mean, you cant access the Dream and the relationship cant function ON ANY LEVEL! WHO IN THERE RIGHT STATE OF MIND CAN GET KINKY WITH A DEBT COLLECTOR CALLING EVERY 10 MINUTES!
seriously though...we could be doing this...
but instead we are dealing with this ...
That being stated... LADIES LETS GET THESE credit scores up! Because we have the power to CHOOSE ANY MAN WE WANT TO LOVE US IN ANY MANNER WE WANT! WE HAVE TO HAVE CONTROL, because secretly they like it that way...ssshhh but anyway MOST DEFINITELY DEVELOP A PLAN FOR YOUR OWN PERSONAL SUCCESS. and once that plan is in play THE MAN WHICH YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HAS TO BELIEVE IN YOU, YOUR POTENTIAL, YOUR POWER, YOUR BEST ALPHA YOU!!!
I'm not saying you both have to be a JADA AND WILL but he has to believe in you and you in him! TEAMWORK YA KNOW! thats the way to go!
TRUST ME ID MUCH RATHER DO THIS IN MY OWN HOME...
THAN BORROW SOMEONE ELSES PLACE LIKE THIS ...
IN CONCLUSION: YES FALLING IN LOVE IS THE EASY PART...BEEN THERE DONE IT SEVERAL TIMES... AND GUESS WHAT THE REAL CHALLENGE IS STAYING THERE....
while I was writing this I may have gotten a bit sidetracked, thats because I'm on a mission too! I am coming after You! My number #1 BBW LOVER#chaingangstalker
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